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2. Living with your work. Many people carry their work to bed with them. For hours they relive the day just ended; think-ing of the things they did do—but should not have done; and thinking of the things they did not do—but should have done. After spending sleepless hours with the past, they switch to the future, thinking of things they will or will not do. Solution. Before retiring at night, take a few moments and review the day's work. If there is anything not pleasing to you, decide what you will do about it the following day—or in the future. Make use of that subconscious mind of yours—which never sleeps—and permit it to work for you while you sleep. Know that a good night's peaceful rest will let you awaken in the morning refreshed and ready to start a great day of accomplishment.
3. Jealousy. It is pathetic how many hours of sleep the green-eyed monster has taken from men and women. Such hours of sleeplessness are miserable, too. We toss and roll as we imagine our happiness and security being taken by another. Solution. Jealousy usually indicates one of two things: selfishness or inferiority. As you retire at night, realize that refreshing, restful sleep will give you the charm which makes you unafraid of competition. Remember! The more you trust others, the more that trust will be deserved.
4. Envy. Not all of us, but a goodly number of people, upon hearing of the good fortune of a friend or relative, stay awake for long periods of time wondering why they never get the breaks. They envy others who have better jobs, better homes, better automobiles, etc. Solution. Envy is negative. To envy someone for a possession indicates that you doubt your own ability to obtain that which you are envying.
This book is giving you fantastically simple rules which will enable you to get what you want in life. So, instead of envying others for what they have, know that you may acquire the same —or even better.
5. Guilty conscience. A guilty conscience does not always
indicate that the one so affected has committed a crime, or a breach of conduct. One's conscience may bother him if he feels he has been negligent toward those near and dear to him. Or, our conscience may disturb us if we feel we have been negligent in improving the body. Solution. A guilty conscience is caused by something which happened in the past. It is beyond the power of anyone to relive a single day of the past. Let bygones be bygones and determine that you will forgive yourself for your mistakes of the past—and profit by them—so that you will not make similar ones in the future. Go to bed with a song in your heart because of your resolve regarding the future.
6. Laziness. The lazy individual loses sleep in two ways. He thinks about the
opportunities he has missed, and is missing, owing to his laziness. He also
spends time in thinking of ways and means whereby he can avoid doing things he
should be doing. It has often been thought that a lazy person sleeps more than
he should, because he is lazy. He can ordinarily drop into sleep at times when
he should be occupied, but he stays awake when he should be sleeping, because he
feels guilty about his apathy toward work. Solution. There is no such thing as
physical laziness. All laziness is mental. When we dread doing a certain type
of work, it is because we are not interested in it. It bores us. Learn to like
that which you have to do. Decide you will do it a bit better than it has ever
been done before. If laziness has been one of your drawbacks, retire with a
promise to yourself that in the future you will find something to like about
everything you are supposed to do and that you will take delight in doing it
well.
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