A WARNING TO PARENTS - part 2

Articles In This Section:

· You Are What You Think You Are! - part 1

· You Are What You Think You Are! - part 2

· You Are What You Think You Are! - part 3

· WHY ARE YOU AS YOU ARE? - part 1

· WHY ARE YOU AS YOU ARE? - part 2

· YOUR IMPORTANT CHANGE-OVER

· A WARNING TO PARENTS - part 1

· A WARNING TO PARENTS - part 2

· A WARNING TO PARENTS - part 3

A family of my acquaintance moved into a questionable neighborhood. This family had a son of twelve, a boy who had been reared to know good from bad, and who was good because he wanted to be good. What effect did the neighborhood have on this boy? It would be better to ask: “What effect did this boy have on the neighborhood?” He organized a neighborhood club and encouraged the boys to become interested in constructive projects.

Remember! It is easier to be a good influence than a bad one. There is every reason in the world for being good, while there are none for being bad.

Knowing what to say to the children is only part of the parents' obligation to them. They must guard what they say in the presence of their children.

A father complained because his children had no respect for him. It was learned that whenever his wife became angry with him she would call him "worthless," "a lazy bum," etc. Wouldn't it seem natural for the children to lose respect? And, of course, if the husband called his wife names, it would have the same effect upon the children.

Vile language, excessive drinking, fighting and quarreling, should all be kept from the children, else they will be reflected in your offspring's behavior.

Making a success of your marriage is proving your leadership in directing one of the greatest institutions on the face of the earth.

The children's portion of this chapter might seem a digression from the theme, "You Are What You Think You Are," but it is not.

As I explained earlier, most of the fears, phobias, complexes and inhibitions a person carries throughout life were implanted in his mind when he was a child.

If parents will make a concerted effort to shield their children from negative influences, the adults coming into being will be Healthy, Wealthy and Wise because they see themselves as such.

May I make a suggestion? This chapter is so important to all parents as well as to those expecting to be parents, that you would be rendering a genuine service if you would lend this book, or another copy, to those who could benefit from it. Many more will enjoy happier and more successful lives as a result of your thoughtful generosity.